So, I'm at home on this Saturday working on various things I need to get done. I'm working on the following:
-Cover art for new tracks, working in photoshop on cover art for 2 new songs.
-Running the dishwasher (I run it once a week generally and hand wash in between).
-Working on things remotely at work, keeping my emails cleared.
-Stock research, everyone's talking bout Snapchat... They have negative earnings. I don't invest in companies with negative earnings. That's speculation. Companies alliterative to SNAP that I do like? Snap-On tools, Toro, Dr Pepper Snapple. I plan to snap up shares of both Toro and Snap-On tools. I've owned both in the past and stupidly sold for profits. Now I'm kicking myself. I keep waiting for the pull back that never comes.
-I have Word open and I'm working on my book.
-I have my music production software open and I'm working on other music related things.
-Dating site replies... I mean, you'd think I would have given up on this by now, but I guess I still have hope that one day... I mean I have a few friends that are like... "Oh I met my significant other on there! It just took a LONG time." SO, maybe it's just taking a long time? Never know. The day I disable my profile could have been the day that she finally signs up. Then we missed each other by one day. There's one girl I'm super close to going on a date with, that we've been chatting for a little while now. Maybe something will come from that? Never know! Of course it's interesting because you talk forever usually, then finally go on a first date... and most of the time, the in person communication is nothing like what the online communication was. And how you imagined the person is WAAAAY different from how their vibe is actually in person. It's not bad, just different. I hate meeting in person initially because I always imagine that the person is disappointed some how. That's why second or third dates are better because you're over that initial shock of... the first date. Which is why I'd rather meet someone in person, or date a friend. Then you already KNOW each other. That never happens though because everyone I know is already in relationships or married. It's kind of hard to date someone if they aren't single! That's kind of requirement number one when it comes to dating... Are both people single? If no, you can't date each other... If yes, you can proceed to step two! Kind of how it works.
-Replying to attorney emails about my mom's estate stuff. We're still wrapping up things. She had a lot of things.
-Making shopping list for grocery store
-Fixing broken things around the house. Toilet ceramic cover chipped and I finally got the proper glue to glue the broken piece back on! Woo Lowes. (Another great stock I would choose over Snap Inc. hands down). Lowes or Home Depot are both heavy hitting dividend aristocrats too. And with lots of 20 and 30 something home buyers entering the market who want trendy run down homes in hipster areas of cities they can fix up themselves and Home Depot and Lowes stores have built stores just in perfect areas for city people to go buy supplies from. Those two are a buy for me. I hold Home Depot currently.
-Go to the gym later and the store.
-Just cleaned out the cat litter boxes.
Anyways, so yeah, my Saturdays are generally my stay at home and catch up and relax days. I slept a good 12 hours last night.
Anyways but seriously I'm tightening down the budget hatches like crazy right now...
-I just paid 1500 bucks in property taxes.
-Need to replace my washer, dryer AND fridge. That will cost me over 5 grand easy.
-I have to find a cat sitter and pay that person for when I go to Maine in June... Last year that cost me a good chunk of change. I had over 3 thousand dollars in vet bills alone last year too.
-I have to pay my annual homeowner and car insurance. So, that's a good 2 grand right there.
-My phone is an iPhone 5 that I bought back in like 2013. I REALLY need to refresh that. I want to buy one that I can fit all my music on and what not so that's another like 800 bucks right there.
-I'm going to need to make some house repairs, I need to hire a contractor to repoint the brickwork, I'm not sure how much that will cost but every time my mom had her contractor do anything it was a good couple grand at least. Her final bill before she died was over 10 thousand dollars that was still owed to the contractor. That was paid from her estate.
SO, spur of the moment Paris trip? I wish. Maybe some day. I have too many other costs. Plus my normal bills and groceries and fees for things like yoga and the gym? And my co-pay for my dental cleaning that I have next week and things like that.
Plus I just don't have the energy for a spur of the moment Paris trip. I mean, maybe because I have a house with 3 cats and what not. Most nights the cats wake me up in the middle of the night so I never get a full night's sleep. And the house is always making weird noises. Don't know what THAT's all about?
Although this latest week since I didn't consume any alcohol and I went to yoga every night after work, I definitely felt a little boost in energy.
But still financially speaking, okay yes I COULD just book a random trip to Paris... But this money I've received from my mom's estate and the trust would dwindle and not be replenished. Then my bank account would be back to zero. And besides who wants to be that person who inherited money and then becomes the person who is talked about all like... "Oh, yeah, I heard they inherited money, but now it's all gone, it's a shame really. Such a shame."
No thanks. I want money that works for me, not money I have to work for.
Paris on a whim will have to wait. For now I use my Saturday's to do work... SO, it's a Workurday to me.
Time to really hunker down and work hard. There's music to be made, books to write, home repairs to be done. Bills to be paid. And 9-5 work to be completed. And there's cats to tend to.
Soooooo... I decided to challenge myself this month to stay in more, right? Right.
Why? Well, mostly because I was just wasting lots of money on stupid things like going out to bars hoping to meet the love of my life and all that... Which obviously did not happen.
Who knows where she is right now.
Anyways, SO, I decided okay I want to stay in more, do more work at my job remotely to stay ahead, go to yoga more and the gym more and just cook more meals at home and eat healthier and such...
Basically just stack the odds of being more successful in life going forward in my favor.
Well one of my challenges to myself was to see if I could keep my credit card bill for this billing cycle on the lower side. I made it! I actually kept it under a thousand dollars, which was basically my goal.
Of course today I just wrote and dropped off a check for the property taxes for my house, which sucks, but hey, the township uses it to run things. So, it's fine.
But anyways I did make it successfully below my intended credit card budget of 1000 bucks. Obviously I have other bills to pay... Water, gas and electric... Etc. etc.
I'm definitely going to keep with what I'm doing. Stick with yoga and the gym and home cooked meals, and focus on trying to gear resources to replacing things around the house, and then as well I REALLY need to focus on making new music and such. AND I want to upgrade my music software and also buy at least some kind of small drum set or something.
The goal is to focus on things that could possibly bring me success in life.
I guess maybe I've been putting the cart before the horse with love. Everyone is like... "Oh you find it when you aren't looking..." And stuff like that.
Well, maybe I just need to be in a different place in life in order to meet her. Maybe I need to be making a significantly higher pay grade. Or maybe I need a crazy cool job title. Or maybe I need to just move somewhere new. Like sell this house, and get out of dodge so to speak. Try a new city or town.
It's a lot easier to prepare for a big move and selling my house and maybe eventually looking for a new job in some brand new far off land/city if I just stay home and work hard.
I guess it's counter intuitive because you'd think by going out a lot I'd increase my odds of meeting that special someone. But maybe she doesn't live in this area! Maybe she lives far away. And so I have to stay in, in the short term, and work hard, in order to move up to some other place in life... and THAT's how I'll meet her.
I mean, I don't know... You know? Maybe that's not how I'll meet her. I guess everyone meets someone in different ways. Certainly you can't possibly know where to meet someone before you meet them, or there'd be no use for dating sites, or singles cruises, or singles social clubs, or speed dating... Etc. etc.
Because everyone could just dial in on where the person they are supposed to marry is and GPS the way to find love.
Doesn't work like that though. It's like a casino... Or the lottery... Eventually, your number comes up.
But no one knows where or when.
So for now... I just focus on what I know I can accomplish and forget about meeting someone who may or may not ever even exist. I mean, it's entirely possible that I never meet this love of my life.
But I KNOW that I can work hard at work, I can work out a lot, I can work on recording and creative things and I can work on my house. It's not like if I go to Lowes, maybe I'll find paint.
If I go to Lowes... there will be paint. No doubt about it.
And then my walls will have a nice fresh coat of paint on them after I paint them.
If I go out to a bar and waste money on beers and stand there trying to talk to women... I'll be out money, it's bad for my health... And I'll still need to paint my walls.
It's just pointless and a waste of time TRYING to find her.
So, I need to focus on the fact that I can work on making new email accounts from home over the weekend. And knowing that when I walk into work on Monday morning I can say... "Oh, that email account for that new staff member? Yeah I did that over the weekend."
I can't 100 percent guarantee that no one is going to say... "You did that already? You suck."
Never going to happen. You will 100 percent of the time always get... "You did that already? Sweet! Wow. Thanks!"
And then the person who was requesting the work to be done will be like... "Yeah, that's awesome."
SO, that's the new plan. Hunker down... Stay in. Give up on meeting that special someone as it's just a waste of time and money and effort that hasn't lead me to her as of yet, and probably won't ever lead me to her...
At least as far as the bar scene goes it won't.
But maybe hard work will and if that doesn't lead me to her either... I still get rewarded for it either way!
Today was probably the easiest to get through of the entire week.
SO, to recap... My boss hasn't been in to work since Thursday, last Thursday. As far as I know, I THINK he'll be back Monday. This just leaves us down one of our team members. So, there's the same amount of work, but less people to do the work.
Anyways, so what happens when you have the same amount of work but less people? The people who remain have to do more work!
Actually, it's interesting... So, when I first started at my job we actually had the following:
3 IT Techs... This was what I was hired as, and basically it's still my title. Even though I'm doing all the net admin stuff now account stuff... Server stuff... core stuff, firewall stuff.. Blah blah blah blah... Basically I do everything IT related. Manage and design and deploy wireless APs and coordinate new cable runs. Avaya phone system management... Who knows what else. Create all email and blackboard accounts. Remove them. Troubleshoot spam blocking appliance issues. Maintain server room things. Maintain switch room things. Help students with password resets. Printer issues. Lab software maintenance. Etc. etc. You name it... I do it. We're not specialized. We just do it all from tier 1 to specialized hardware deployments of sensitive networking equipment. I guess I just don't believe in the phrase "Not my job". To me? Everything is my job. If the kitchen needs help with a cake mixer, and I know how it works? Heck, I'm there! Oh we also do security stuff do, like video stuff... I don't know, we just do it all. iPhone support. Whatever. The bottom line is whatever it takes to see that the students are successful academically and that the professors can teach and the staff can support them.
So, 3 techs
1 helpdesk coordinator
1 director of IT
1 Phone guy
1 Instructional technology guy
1 VP of IT existed at one point as well
Now was have 2 techs, 1 helpdesk coordinator and 1 director. We use a consulting company for some phone stuff...
And the college is bigger in size than when I first started. They have a clinic for the pscyh department. A second part of campus across the street that they purchased and an international language department that wasn't there before.
Anyways I guess since we've had the same core 3 people for a good almost 10 years now... With no turn over... We've just gotten to the point where we know it all very quickly and so we can support more faster.
The current situation is a bit extreme though. I think honestly we should have 1 more guy including my boss. But, it's tough to convince money people to spend money. Money people never want to add more staff they love to take away though.
Which is a no brainer... It saves money. Obviously.
But anyways I can do this fine for this week... But longer term? Running the department with 1 coordinator and 2 techs isn't really sustainable.
It's certainly been an interesting week though... I had to modify some habits though to be able to make it through...
What did I do to make it through a week down 33 percent of our core workforce of 3 people to two?
So first off I cut out my wine and beer treats. That gave me more energy off the bat.
I went to yoga EVERY night. That upped my energy more too... and it helps with managing wrist pain. Helps a TON.
I went to bed earlier. Also helps.
I double fisted my caffeine. So, I made coffee AND tea... then sipped both throughout the day alternating between them.
Next, I made extra healthy dinners and also made fruit and veggie shakes.
By the time I got to today? I was buzzing!
I'm just like... GAME ON!
But it got me thinking.... How fined tuned can I make myself?
And why stop even once my boss is back?
Why not just boost my own energy using health shakes, yoga, sleep, tea and coffee, cut out alcohol...
Basically, how this world kind of works is, it's a little like a competition. Everyone is trying to make lots of money and find those coveted jobs that pay the most.
Obviously those jobs go to the smartest, the fastest, the people who have the energy and drive to go after those.
Polish a resume, stuff it full of 25 activities and degrees and volunteer things...
Just like... Imagine if you REALLY had something like what the guy in the movie Limitless had. Like, unlimited energy and intelligence?
"Well, I did go to Yale, triple majored if I do say so myself. Finished 2 masters degrees along with my 3 undergrad degrees. I work 12 hours a day 7 days a week, volunteer, go to 4 gyms, and am the head of 8 community clubs... I'll be in Peru later this week to help starving local people and setup a food bank followed by France next week for an awards ceremony..."
Basically you're a robot.
What's weird though is, there are people like that! I mean, if you've ever heard a graduation speaker... They usually sound like that.
It's some guy/girl who's on 12 boards and is the CEO of 5 nonprofits and for profit companies simulationsly. He/she'll tell you how he skips rope 6 thousand skips every morning when she/he wakes up, drinks 12 cups of green tea and then makes a gallon size health smoothie all before 6 am.
And that's on 2 hours sleep he or she gets each night.
Most people work 9-5 and are pooped... and can barely just wash the dishes in their sink.
Actually, that was me. It's crazy, so I'm in no way like those examples of the people who do 80 million things a day...
But I will say that cutting out alcohol, going to yoga every single night right after work, making a fruit and veggie smoothie, using tea and coffee to boost work performance... I even went to the gym a couple of nights too.
Has made me feel a little bit more in that "go getter" category. I'm certainly nothing like those graduation speaker people who tell the students their entire life story and it takes 50 hours for them just to get through the basic accomplishments.
So for now I think I'll say game on and continue to do lots of these more healthy things and see where it takes me!
I mean, I'm pretty sure it never hurts to improve or work on yourself. And hey sometimes it takes your boss being out for a week suddenly to make you see that.
Every time there's a backup problem, I think of this commercial.
Anyways so right now I'm watching this one mail server backup... It's chugging along. Last night when I was logged in checking on a few things...
(remember that my boss is out for the week, so I'm covering some of his usual known duties)
I noticed that one of the mail servers was stuck on the backup. It's one of those deals where the service was hanging, which means you try to cancel it, it won't cancel. But it's also never going to finish.
So, you have to manually kill and restart the services.
It's not terrible. It's just that the backup program we use doesn't really fail gracefully.
For whatever reason computer programs fail. It happens. Anyways, sometimes they are very micro level things, such as little tiny services running. Sometimes though they don't fail and restart (this is what I mean by failing gracefully). They just hang. Who knows what is actually going on. It's a server running exchange and the program we use is a commercial backup program from a popular vendor. It's running on MS windows server and it's running bare metal on a Dell server. We have a few of these servers in racks.
We may eventually push some or all of our email stuff to cloud services like G Suite from Google, but for now we host it all in-house.
Anyways, so... earlier today I had to basically run the steps to kill a backup that had been stuck in this limbo state. The next scheduled backup began and it's running now. All looks good.
Today was another busy day. But you know, busy makes the day go quick. So it's actually not bad. We'll see if tomorrow is equally as busy. It's interesting because this whole deal where it's just my coworker and myself is kind of motivating us to work a little harder than we usually do. I guess ideally when the boss comes back... We should continue this motivation... Let's hope so!
Today we were brainstorming all these projects that we've been wanting to tackle but have had on the back burner. Just systems that we need to revamp or whatever. One of them we actually purchased a license for but haven't implemented it yet. So, we're going to work on that because it's a wasted license right now! And that's no good. Buying something, and then not putting it into production is a big old waste of resources.
The idea is that you add value to your system or efficiency or whatever by purchasing something. Or it's just a waste of the organizations valuable resources/money.
Anyways, I was going to stay up until this backup finished but I'll just check it in the morning.
I have to get up a tad bit early to take a check to the bank to pay property taxes for the house. My hope is that the township is as mindful about being efficient with the money that I pay out in taxes as we try to be at work with the money that we take in from tuition and such. Anyways so hopefully the backup finishes a-okay and everything just like the problem that is solved in the commercial with the roaming gnome.
So, tonight I went to yoga after work for the 3rd night in a row. I'm just going to go every night this week. Then after that, I went to the gym. I've never done this before, it was interesting.
So, yoga generally is focused on stretching and muscles and relaxation. This means it's actually great to do before going to the gym because you are all warmed up.
Anyways so yeah I did gym and yoga. Another pairing I've found useful is tea and coffee. I know I said I was making coffee, and then doing tea... Well, we've had a hiccup at work and the regular water cooler thing wasn't ordered on time... Soo... I decided to bring an extra water bottle of my own and then in addition to that, I also made my tea at home. What happened? I started drinking it in between coffee.
What I mean is, I'd drink coffee for a little while, then switch to tea, then drink that for a little while, then switch back to coffee. Because it's in a tumbler it stays hot.
It's interesting. I feel like my productivity is double or something. I'm buzzing all day! Which helped today since the boss is still out, although instead of flying solo my coworker was in. So that helped for sure.
Anyways yes, pairings... So, some things just work better in pairs I guess. Kind of like how you're supposed to have at least 2 cats if you own cats. I don't know if that's true but my mom always told me that. She said that she could never have just had one cat, at least two are needed to keep one another company. Or three... Or four.
Now I'm looking for more pairings. You know, like a good wine with a good pasta. Or something like that. I wonder what other things I've been missing out on that are better off as a pair rather than just by itself!
Well, I made it through a day all by my lonesome at work. it was pretty tiring. Although, the thing is... It was mostly just like being at camp.
At camp I'm the only IT guy, and on top of that it's non stop from about 8am at breakfast all the way through to 11pm... Sometimes later. So really, it wasn't all THAT big of a deal.
So it turns out that going for 2 weeks to the summer camp in Maine for my vacation from work to work even harder than I do at my usual job, trained me for my boss being out for a week. He's supposedly going to be out for a week.
So, the way I'll look at it is, it's just like being in Maine.
Anyways, today I went to yoga after work... Yoga is amazing if you've never been. I plan to probably go every night after work. It basically makes it possible to not have a stressful care in the world about work.
Also, I brew my morning coffee and tea. I also make a fruit and veggie smoothie which helps me to be at my tip top mentally so I can just bada-bing-bada-boom out the issues as they come flying in.
I went to Lowes to get a fastener thingy to fix this basement stair issue. No lie, I was walking up my basement stairs the other day and one of them cracked on one part! So, I'm going to fasten the wood with like 8 bracket thingys. Eventually I'll get the carpenter guy in to look at it... Not that I currently have a carpenter guy. So, I 'll need to find one. In the mean time, I'm going to screw these brackets in. I did it for the drawer like 2 years ago in the cabinet. The nails just kind of came loose and I had to fix that, it's been flawless ever sense and you can't even see where the brackets are because I hid them on the bottom side when I screwed them in.
Anyways so... Here's to making it through the week... Come what may. It's just like being at camp. At least that's how I'm looking at it. Just go with the flow.
Good thing I decided to start staying in more! I've definitely been more prepared for this because of my decision to stay in and save money and keep it low key.
Okay, I'm going to go fix this basement stair issue and then get to sleep.
Last night I went to this co-worker's charity. It was fun. Everything is donated and then all the money that is made goes to the charity. One of the things they are doing is building a handicapped accessible park. SO, that's pretty cool.
Anyways, I sat at a table with other work peeps and one of us actually won one of the raffle prizes! I didn't win any of the ones I put in for though. Oh well.
Well anyways, this is going to be a short blog because 2 out of 3 people in my department will be out tomorrow, so that leaves one person... And guess which person that leaves? Me. Haha, so it's going to be a busy day tomorrow and I'll be the one and only IT guy around for the entire college. Yay!
It's alright, I just help one person at a time and everyone else has to wait their turn. That's the best I can do. Tomorrow after work I'm headed to yoga and then stopping at Lowes to get a little bracket thingy to fix something in the basement. Look at me getting all do-it-myselfer! Of course later on in the week I'll be stopping at the bank before work to pay my property tax bill. That's an amount of money that I cringe at. Then of course I need to inquire about fixing the brickwork... I still need to get a new iPhone, fridge, washer and dryer... I'd love to buy a drumset and upgrade my recording stuff. Oh well... One thing at a time.
The way I look at it is these are all luxuries. Most of the kids that the charity benefits can't walk, or see, or hear... Or they have severe cognitive issues. So, for me to want a new iPhone or fridge seems kind of like I'm being greedy about life. You know? Some people have it WAY worse off than to have a busy day at work.
Anyways, I spent most of the weekend remotely working on things to anticipate tomorrow. Plus, I plan to work more tomorrow evening after yoga to make sure I keep up. The thing about anything is, as long as you do a little extra work and stay ahead, it's more manageable. If nothing else we have a couple days for Easter break coming up too, so I can use that time to catch up on work if things get backed up.
My boss is actually going to be out all week because of a sudden personal issue... So this whole week will probably be lots of me remotely connected at night to keep up with the issues coming in. It's one of those it is what it is situations.
Anyways, I'm off to sleep early so I can get a good night's sleep and have lots of energy for tomorrow!
Last night I had two dreams...
Dream One: I was having construction done on my house and my cats got out. So the majority of the dream was chasing the cats around outside trying to get them back in the house. My cats are indoor only cats... So this is a legit fear. In the dream were all rounded up and returned back inside. Oddly enough by the time I got done finding them the construction had been completed. Talk about service!
I do need some construction done on my house. I have a bunch of things earmarked. This is one of the reasons I am staying in more because I know that contractors aren't cheap. One of the things I need is my brickwork re-done around the garage and the chimney. I'm going to reach out to a local business that does that and see if I can get an estimate.
Dream Two: I was on a train, and I missed my stop because I had TOO much stuff. Basically I had too many bags and instead of them all being neatly packed up, all of my stuff had been strewn about, so I was trying to grab the stuff and put it all in the bags. But then the doors closed and the train kept going. So, I finished putting all my baggage together and got off at the next stop.
Once I was finished and got off, I walked into a movie scene accidentally. They had to stop filming and told us that we would have to wait in a specific area until filming had completed. I got bored and started trying to find an alternate way around the holding area with all my stuff. I stumbled into a different area that was meant for the actors. They asked me what scene I was in and I told them that I was just trying to get through... They said they liked my face and wanted me in the movie. I then was asked to perform a monologue. I performed the one from acting class. They liked it and told me that they wanted me in the movie.
Speaking of two... I've found another good "two thing"... It involves my love of coffee and tea. So, back in the day I was a one drink man. I used to only drink tea. Straight no chaser. Then I started getting into coffee. Now I drink both every day.
The problem is when you have a tumbler... It's hard to fully clean it and cross over between coffee and tea and back. The solution? Two tumblers!
One is for coffee, the other is for tea. Then you don't get that strange crossover flavor.
Remember when I was talking about mixing coffee and tea? Yeah, no. I mean, that dirty chia and godfather thing their okay, but it's just... Their better off as two separate things instead of better off as two. Sometimes it happens! Sometimes two things just don't go well together. And that's okay. Not everything mixes well.
I mean, trust me, TRUST ME... If you need confirmation that not EVERYTHING mixes well... Your homework for this blog is to go make the following two items in a smoothie...
Then along with those two items, go ahead and put your usual smoothie items in.
Trust me... Tomato and garlic, no matter what way you slice is... Stick it in the fridge for a day and try it the next day.
Go ahead. Try it. Then take a selfie of the face you make.
I don't care what anyone says, tomato and garlic belong on pasta, or pizza, or anywhere like that, but they don't belong in a fruit smoothie.
Anyways, so now that I have two containers for my coffee and tea, I also can start drinking my afternoon tea before I've finished my coffee! This way, I can cross over slowly and in the time that pleases me. Previously I had to gulp down the rest of my coffee then go wash out the mug and then make tea. Now I can make the tea like around lunch time and start drinking as soon as it reaches the perfect temp. That's the other issue, the temp will still be SOOOO hot when you first make the tea.
It's just no good. It's all about transitioning over from morning coffee, to afternoon tea. Then when I get home in the evening I can wind down with an herbal tea in an actual mug. Or if I'm feeling it I can just have a nice craft beer or a glass of wine.
That's my other "two". Beer and wine don't go together, but they can go well when alternated. The only thing I WISH that they could make is like, half size wine bottles. Or single serve wine bottles. With a craft beer, I can buy the mix your own 6 pack thing at the store and then I can just open one beer and pour it into a pint glass and enjoy the beer. But with wine, once I open that bottle, even if I do the whole vac-u-vin thing and refrigerate it and all, it's a race against time until the thing turns to vinegar!
Single serving bottles of wine, or at least half bottles, that needs to be a thing! Also, single salad bags need to be a thing too. That's another race against time.
Seriously, there's so many single things... I'm going to open up a singles grocery store where we have smaller sizes of things for people who are single. And hey, who knows, maybe our shoppers might end up meeting each other there and then they can move up to the regular size grocery store!
Hey, that's not a bad idea. A small grocery store with all single people oriented products. From serving size, to the type of foods we carry. It's like a bachelors and bachelorette's R US. And maybe like once a week or something we do events too, like karaoke, quizzo, or open mics, or some other Friday or Saturday night thing.
Seriously... I'd shop there!
Single serving size wine bottles and salad bags... I'll call it "One for now, two for later". Or, "Onenowtwolaters".
Welcome to Onenowtwolaters home of the single serving size wine bottles and salad bags.
This is hilarious. It's a parody of the dad that was interrupted during the interview on BBC. I think it's totally accurate as heck because my mom, when we were growing up, had to deal with 3 kids and manage a whole house and even found time to date and finish a degree and work like 4 jobs including a full time job, teaching skiing, working at the summer camp... Etc. etc. and she was a single parent of us 3 kids. She also helped us with our homework and what not. So, I'm just like this is totally true and super funny. I love it.
I've been staying home more lately. It's interesting, there are several "side effects" from it.
First off... I'm saving money. I plan to put that money into other things. It's actually quite a bit of money that I'm saving! It's so crazy, you never realize how a little few dollars here, and a couple of other dollars there can really add up over time.
It does though. Not only does money add up, but time does too!
So, another thing you start doing when you stay home is you start doing other little things. I clean more, I have more home projects.
Okay, for example, I used to go to little places after work and check things out. Obviously, you have to drive there. That driving time, if you stay home, becomes extra time where you can do other things.
For example, let's say I was going to work on things at a coffee shop and that coffeeshop was even just 15 minutes away. Add another 5 minutes to park, plus there's just walking to the coffeeshop from the car, finding a seat in the shop, ordering my thing. Then walking back... and driving back.
I mean, that's easily maybe 45 minutes. So, if I stay home, I make my own coffee... WAY cheaper than going anywhere, I then use that 45 minutes that I would have spent driving to do some other things... Then start on the work I would have done at the shop.
The other side effect is, I stay logged into work remotely more. So, I do a thing here or there, those little things add up too! Then my next day at work is a little bit less to deal with because I did 2 or 3 small things when I would have been in a car driving, or I would have been wherever.
Really, it pays a LOT to just stay in. Having that edge of doing a few items then makes work less stressful.
There's like side effects from the side effects!
Anyways... I don't know, I feel like the side effects from staying in are just super positive. I mean, okay so yes, no one can stay in ALL the time. It's probably not healthy... So I do go out... But the other thing I've been doing more is going instead to places to sit and do work, since I now do that stuff at home instead... I have been going more to the gym and yoga. Those two things are making me more physically fit and giving me more energy.
That just adds even more to positive effects.
So, it's just all good things all around.
One place I'm not skimping though, is the store. The grocery store budget still remains unchecked. It's hard to spent a lot of money at the store though... My fridge is like constantly full now. And now I cook more. And cooking more tends to mean you eat healthier, plus it's just fun to cook! It's relaxing too, to just stay in and cook.
It's crazy though how much more value you get cooking your own meals. I mean, if I go to a coffee shop and get a cookie and a coffee... Like one of those big cookies...
It's usually 3 or sometimes as much as 4 bucks for the cookie and 2.50 for the coffee. Plus the cost of gas to drive there. And don't forget to tip your barista! Sometimes too, I'll get a slice of pizza down the street and bring it to the shop... Now we're talking what? 2 or 3 bucks for the slice?
So coffee shop cookie coffee and pizza and tip...
Like easily 10 bucks. Or heck, even Panera Bread is 10 bucks easy.
10 bucks at the store? You can actually get a good amount.
Like, for example the whole soup and sandwich thing and a tea?
I can make my own tea for pennies. I mean, it's like 10 cents to brew a cup of tea, and that's good loose-leaf tea even!
It's like 2 bucks for a tea anywhere out.
Soup and sandwich? I can buy a pre-made turkey hoagie, a foot long sandwich at that... For like 6 bucks at the store. Or I can even buy all my own ingredients and make it myself.
Soup? I can get a soup for like 2 bucks and heat it up. I can even go with the fancy 5 dollar soup in the pre-made section along with my footlong turkey hoagie.
6 bucks for a sandwich and 5 bucks for a soup.
But, that one from the store, I can get two sandwiches, two 6 inches, and two bowls of soup from that 5 dollar soup.
3 bucks plus 2.50, or 5.50 for a pick two from the grocery store... and 10 cents for the make my own iced tea, or hot tea.
Plus, at home... I can sit anywhere I want as long as I want and no one ever asks me to leave.
So, If I really get on a roll (no pun intended) with something, even after I'm done eating my sandwich... I can just keep chugging away without having to worry about packing up and trying to pick up where I left off.
Anyways, I feel like the key to being more productive and successful in general in life, is to just stay in more...
Plus, in between things at work, I can get up and practice a song or two on guitar, which I may have done while writing this blog. I actually did quite a few other things while I was writing this blog.
I worked remotely some, I played guitar, I gave my cats treats because they begged for treats...
I dust busted here and there some. I organized and sorted some postal mail that I received over the last few days.
And I ate a few spoonfuls of some ice cream. Okay, maybe that's not a great side effect that I can just get up and snack on ice cream, or any other plethora of snacks I have because remember, I have no restriction on my grocery budget... I guess they can't ALL be positive side effects. Although, I don't know, I mean, I'm a big fan of having a snack after a small accomplishment. It's like my own little way of rewarding myself. I just love to snack though, I'm not going to lie. I'm a snacker! I try to keep it healthy with mixed nuts and dried fruits and things like that, but sometimes I just like to have ice cream, or some chocolate!
Anyways, so staying home seem's to be working out well. It just feels like I have more grounding... Or, I just feel like I can better prepare myself for life and whatever comes at me. You know?
Staying home just makes it feel, to me at least, like I have a slight edge and upper hand with life and work and creative things. And that's the side effect that I want.
One of the things I always felt being out at bars or coffee shops... Was that I didn't feel like I could actually relax and truly ground down and feel prepared for the next day/week/month/life event. I always felt like I had to put my attention to the bar tender, or the barista... Or making sure someone next to me didn't spill coffee on my laptop. I guess I never realized that until I stopped going out and stayed in.