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Brutal

So.. I had an idea for a site/service.  Basically, it's called Brutal, and it's just that, brutal honest feedback.  I mean, we all basically want to do it anyway, think about every public comment forum.  Everyone just likes to speak their mind when it comes to being anonymous in comments... But most people don't do it in real life.

This really pertains to dating.  So, what you do is you sign up and you basically do that whole swiping thing.  But instead of going on dates with someone that you want to get to know more... You go on dates to basically pick the person apart.

The date would be a normal "romantic date".  Coffee.  Or, a drink.  Whatever.  You go on this date as you would with someone you're trying to woo.

Then after the date, each person fills out a feedback page.  They tear them apart.  Everything from the way they walked, and talked, to the content of their discussion.  How they dressed.  How they looked.  How their hair was.

Basically, have at it.  Be mean.  Be Brutal.

Then, it's up to the people to take that information and use it for when they go on a date with someone from a dating site.  Or, a date in general.

So, if you have a Tinder date lined up on a Saturday night, go on a Brutal date on Thursday.  Then keep that information in mind for your date.

The problem with friends, or yourself, or family, is that they won't give you honest feedback.  They will tell you that things are fine or great, when they aren't.  They will tell you an outfit looks fine.

A Brutal date won't.  They will tell you that it's the worst outfit known to human kind.

Time to go shopping.

Your haircut looks like a 5 year old cut it.

New haircut needed.

You're chewing with your mouth open.

Right, I'll keep that in mind.

You speak too quietly... You slouch... Are you checking out other people while we're on a date?  No.  Just.  No.

And the name of the game is, be honest, be brutally honest.  Feel free to totally rip that person to shreds and tell them exactly how you felt on the date.

Brutal dates make you better at dating by being brutally honest with the feedback.