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Annoying

You know what I find annoying?  When people basically complain about their significant other.  My thing is, you have a significant other, be happy that you have someone.  I've got nothing.  And pretty much every date I go on ends on her saying "I'll call you".

And then on the follow up text... She basically says "When I said I would call you, I mean, I don't really want to call you... Like in the movie Mean Girls when she compliments someone, it means, she doesn't actually like it."

And I'm just like... "Oh, okay."

And she's like "It was nice talking to you... And when I say it was nice talking to you... I mean, watch the movie Mean Girls."

So, if someone actually HAS a significant other... They should be very grateful as far as I'm concerned.  They should be happy that someone actually has enough interest to let them even be with them!

I just find it annoying that they are anything but happy.

I mean, I would LOVE to even just have a girlfriend... Or even just be seeing someone.  I can't even get beyond a first date.  I'd love to have anyone just even look in my direction.

I can't even get that.

So, I just hate it when people aren't anything but loving and caring to the person they are with.  That other person doesn't have to be with the person.  No one has to be with anyone, everyone could just be single... So they choose to be with someone... And that's why anyone who is in a relationship, or married, should consider themselves lucky that the person wanted to be with them.

That's my view.  It's a privilege that someone decides to be with someone else not a right.

Otherwise, just be single instead then... Don't be with someone just to be with someone... Be with someone because you feel lucky being with that person.... you feel honored that they want you.  Out of ALL the people on this planet, you're the one that they are with!  That's amazing when you think about it.  That person decided to be with you.  Billions of people... And it's YOU they are with.

NO complaining allowed.  At all.  That's my view on it.  Don't take anyone for granted... People choose to be in one another's lives and it should be an honor that the person chose to allow you to be not just an acquaintance, not just a friend, but a significant other.  That should be cherished because it's SUPER special.

People can have a lot of friends... But they can only have one significant other in their lives.  It should be an honor.