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Here’s Every Relationship

You choose one of two things:

A: you fall in love... completely in love.  You can't stop thinking about that person, every moment of every day... last thought before you go to sleep at night and first thought in the morning.  You just want to spend as much time with them or trying to talk to them... you just think every freakin thing they do is cute... their smile... they're walk... the way they think and their witty funny sarcastic remarks.  You just love their wisecracker attitude and can't get enough of it.  You think they have the most beautiful eyes ever... and smile... and laugh.  You think that they are super creative, and super driven.  You feel like they are a great solid person and just someone that you really admire.

But they don't think you are all that great and really want someone else the way you want them.  Or they just can't find anyone else better that really makes them feel amazing and completely crazy in love.

Or

Option B:

Reverse what I just wrote.  That person thinks all the same stuff about you but you secretly want someone else.

 

SO... the question is... which do you choose?  Would you rather be someone that is a backup plan for someone else... someone that they were just killing time until that REAL special someone wanted them again?  But you are definitely in love with that person.  Or maybe they just haven't found anyone better so you are sort of a you'll do.

OR...

Do you just settle for someone who doesn't make your heart skip a beat... someone who doesn't make you wild with fire when you kiss them... someone you doesn't just make you absolutely totally all warm fuzzy butterflies inside.  Someone who really wants you and completely loves you... but you don't love them.

 

That is EVERY relationship I've ever experienced.

 

I don't know which is worse... to be with someone you don't love... or to be with someone who doesn't love you.

So the problem is... no relationship is ever mutual... it's just not possible... so in order to not be alone for the rest of ones life someone would need to choose...

 

Love less, or be loved less.

Which do you choose?