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A Promise

A Promise

Today I’m just going to write a little promise…

I know this is silly…

But I don’t care, silly or not… I’m putting this up!

This is to the girl I end up marrying.  Maybe I don’t know you yet.  Or maybe you are someone I do already know.   Or maybe I won’t even meet you for many, many, many years.  I hope I don’t have to wait years.  But I guess whatever is meant to happen will happen no matter what I try to do to change my path in life… so here you are:

These are my promises I will make to you and swear to never break.

 

I promise to…

Always be there to support you in everything you do.  Every choice you make, no matter what I’ll support you 100 percent.  I’ll fight for you and be your advocate.  I’ll always be strong for you and the both of us.

I promise to…

Always listen to you.  When you need someone to talk to.  Or you just need a shoulder to cry on.  Even if you just want to be held.  I’ll stay with you whenever you need it as long as you need someone just to be there with you.

I promise to…

Always do small things to make you feel special EVERY SINGLE DAY. I’ll do special things on Holidays, birthday’s anniversaries.  I’ll always give you something to smile about.  And you can pick what you like… flowers, chocolates, little stuffed animals.  Or even if you just want a handwritten card, or a walk in the park, make you dinner.  Anything.  Name it… I’ll do it!

I promise to…

Give you space when you need it.  I promise not to be too overly clingy.  I promise to let you do your thing and be you and you just let me know what your needs are and I’ll always give you what you need.

I promise to…

Try and change anything about me that you might absolutely hate.  Behaviors, habits, and things I say.  If something absolutely drives you nuts just tell me and I’ll do my best to change it for you.

I promise to…

Give you my time when you do need it.  You will always be able to count on me giving you my time over any other thing in my life.  I won’t ever tell you that I can’t do something for you because I will have to be doing something else.  It’s you and I… together… evenly yoked.

I promise to…

Stand up for you if any harm were to ever come your way and take care of you.  I’ll never leave you because of a rough patch in the road.  I’ll be with you no matter what even at the worst of times.  I’ll always be there; I’ll be your rock.  If you are hurting then I am hurting.

I promise to…

Always show affection.  I won’t hide our love ever.  I’ll make it known and public that you are mine and I am yours.

I promise to…

Always be honest, and truthful and never lose your trust ever on anything.

I promise to…

Never keep you waiting for any reason.  I’ll never make you wait and I’ll never be late.  I’ll always be there when I say I will be right on time.  If you are ever late, that’s ok… I’ll wait for you.

I promise to..

Never to make you feel unsafe in any way.  I'll never do, or say anything to you that would make you feel anything but secure and loved.

I promise to…

Share everything with you.  We’ll buy a house together, raise a family together… and just do it all together.

I promise to…

Let you raise our kids in the religion of your choice.

I promise to…

Always love you with the fullest of my whole heart.  I’ll never give you a reason to doubt us ever.

Most importantly... I promise to…

Always let you watch whatever you want on TV.

 

So there you have it.  That’s what I feel like expressing right now.  I mean every word of that.  So to the girl I end up with.  That’s for you.  Whoever you are.