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Dating Coach Teams

Okay, so I had an idea for a website... I'm pretty sure I've had this idea before... But, I've refined it.

The idea is that there's a site, that isn't a dating site... And it's not affiliate with any of the dating sites... It's just a site that helps with dating.

Here's how it works...

Anyone can sign up.  There are two choices when singing up... You can choose one, or both.

Choice one is to be a coach.  Choice two is to build a coaching team.

Let's say you want to build a team.  Okay, cool.  So, you sign up, you make a profile, you upload some photos... and you post your current situation.

Now, you build a team.  This is where the coach part happens... Who are the coaches?  Anyone really... Anyone can sign up to help.  Or just follow your dating/love story.

But, they have to request to be a coach and you have to okay it.  You can also ask someone to be a coach, and you either get approved, denied, or waitlisted.


Yes.  See, some coaches are pro coaches.  Which means they are actually a paid service.


Okay, so there's tiers of coaches.  Now, when you build a team, you could just choose to have random strangers coach you.  Hey, you get what you pay for though.  Now, if you want, you can convince your friends and family to sign up as coaches and then they can request to be part of your team, and you add them.

Another option is to have pro dating coaches.

How does someone become a pro dating coach you ask?  Easy, they have to get pro dating game on-point points...

If you get enough points and build up your coach profile you can become a pro coach and get paid to coach.

But this isn't a dating site?

No.  It's just a site where you post things about your dating experience and get coaching or feedback on it from your team.

Let's say you like someone you work with, or you like someone you see on a daily basis on your morning commute.

Or a friend of a friend.

Or you decide to go speed dating, or online dating.

Whatever it is... You can post things to your team and get feedback.

Build a team as small or as large as you'd like... You could have a mix of strangers, family, friends, and pro coaches that you pay a fee to... Or, you can just have one friend if you'd like.

When you first start, you start a love story.  Your love story starts somewhere, and more than likely it starts with you home alone signing up for the love story site with no dating prospects what-so-ever.

It's just you and some internet, and some wine.

Let's say you make a profile and you write that, single, drinking wine, watching cat videos.

Hey, that's where your love story starts.

Now let's say you send an email to your friend and tell that friend to sign up as a coach, look at that, you now have a coach.  They can comment... maybe they give their first bit of advice...

"You should go on a date with my friend."

You can decline the advice or accept it.

"I already went on a date with your friend, remember?"

"Oh yeah."

"Just go get your haircut... That will help give you a fresh look and some confidence."

You accept the advice and go get your haircut.  You post that you got your haircut and post a photo.

Some random strange now wants to be a coach.  You accept.

The stranger says... "Try going to a meetup group!  Great haircut!"

You reply, "Thanks!  And okay.... What kind of group?"

The stranger says... "Try a game night."

Your friend chimes in... "No do something more exciting!  Go out to see some comedy or something."

You accept the advice and go out to see comedy with a group.  You meet someone there but you weren't sure how to hint that you liked the person.

So you come back and tell the details to your friend and the stranger.  You say, I think one of my family members would know how to handle this... So you tell your family member to sign up for an account and now they are linked up to your story too.

Suddenly you're building a team of coaches.

They tell you the right thing to say to get a first date... You're in!


But what do you wear?  Ask the coaches.

They suggest a few things, but nothing is really making you feel confident.  You bring in more friends... and another stranger... You quickly remove the second stranger from the team when you realize their advice sucks.

Add and remove anyone you want at any time.

Your cousin wants to give advice.

No.  You decline that cousin.

Finally someone suggests wearing an outfit that you wore to a previous party.  You go with that.

It's a hit.

You're going on dates... Now things start to get a little more serious and you're not sure, should you move slow?  Or fast.

Your friends and randoms and family aren't helping.  You decide to ask a pro for advice.

A pro joins your team for a monthly fee, and you can remove the pro at any time...

The pro turns out to be a board certified therapist and marriage counselor...  They give you some advice and you go with it.

Look at that... It works out well.

Now you're with the person for a few months, and then several months.

You post updates for your team about how the relationship is going... Suddenly things get rocky when you start talking about moving in together... Uh oh.

You bring in a different pro and you ask a trusted coworker to join your team.

None of their advice seems to work.  Things go sour.

You break up.

It happens...

But, it turns out that your coworker tells you that another friend of theirs is recently single too.... You ask the team, they say, go on a date and see where it goes, but be honest and say you just broke up with someone.

You click.

The team rejoices!

The professional therapist counselor reminds you that you need time to get over your last relationship and that you should be very open about that with the new person.

The person is understanding... The team rejoices again.

You begin the dating process all over again.  This time, you make it further...

Your team follows along at every up and down, every twist and turn.

You lose one member, you gain another.

You post updates on your love story... The team comments.

Suddenly you're engaged!  The team rejoices again!

Job well done team, job well done.

And that's the idea behind the dating coach love story...

From cat videos and wine alone to engaged.

And now that you're getting married, you need a wedding planner, and photographer, and a venue and caterer... Don't worry, the Love Story site has you covered with suggestions, and of course, your team can chime in as well.

It's up to you when you want to end the story, or if you want to keep going, maybe you want to update about your marriage a year in, or post photos of your first kid... Or your 12 dogs and cats that you rescued because neither of you want kids.

Love Story and the team are there... And even if things get rocky in the marriage, you can go back and get advice from a professional.

Love Story is there to help you through the rough parts and, of course, rejoice when it all goes "just right".

I think it could be an extermely useful site if done right.

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