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Waiting, trying, starting over and trying again

So, I'm still waiting for that special someone to come into my life.  I don't know.  I mean, she's out there somewhere.  Just have to keep waiting it out.

My thing is, I always try really hard... It's always the dates that I go on that don't give me the time of day.  Or there's always some other guy who they have an interest in.  Or they end up moving away.

Someone tonight was basically like... It's not about meeting someone, it's about basically going after someone.

I'm like... And if everyone you meet is married already?  Really?  Go after someone?  Who are you going to go after if they are all already married?

Exactly.

Part of it IS luck.  You can't say it's NOT luck, and then everyone you meet isn't single.  So, basically you're saying you are supposed to break up a marriage?

Yeah ok.

Anyways... So, I'm still just waiting for her to come into my life.  You can't fall for someone you never cross paths with.  That's my argument.  Plus it has to be mutual.  Obviously, I TRY with women... They don't try back.  They don't give me the time of day.

I try, they don't.

But, to me... That just says I haven't met the right one yet.  If you meet the right person, both people will be interested mutually.  It won't be one person trying to convince another person to be with you.

I do a lot of that.  I go on dates, I basically try hard, and then she sits there like... "Yeah, I don't know.... Maybe?  I guess?  I mean... I'm just not sure."

And then you have to figure out how to figure out how to keep her attention...

But, in the end, it's impossible to keep it.  There's some other guy eventually and she's like "Oh!  Who's THAT guy over there!"

And then I start all over with someone new.

There's always the starting over part.  But, I just have to keep hoping that one day... She'll stick around and decide I'm the one that she wants.  Until then...

Just have to keep trying.  Try and fail and start over... Again and again.  Eventually... She'll come along.