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30Jul/160

Exhausting

Next weekend my dad's side of my family is having a family reunion up in upstate NY.  I can't go, I have to work... August through September for work in higher education is always SUPER busy.  It's like the super super super SUPER busy time of the year.  The start of the semester is always just really demanding... and theoretically it should be all kinds of exhausting.  But it's not too bad to me at least.

But you know what IS exhausting?  Or what would have been?  Going to the reunion.  Why?  Because there's all married people with kids.  It's weird... hanging out with married people, ESPECIALLY married people with kids just drains me of energy.  It's SUPER exhausting.  I can handle like an hour... But anything beyond that is like... I just feel like my soul is being sucked out.

Hanging out with other singulars though?  Super energy restoring.  I feel like I get energy from other single people.  But people that are in relationships or married or have kids?  It's like my soul is literally being sucked out of my body.

So, I'm just glad I have to work and can't make it.  I feel like family reunions are for married people with kids.  I'm not there in life yet.  I mean I'd love to meet a girl and have kids and get married... But I guess I just haven't met the right one yet.

Just have to keep going on first dates from dating sites and going out to events and things.  She'll come along one day.

I just updated my Tinder dating app and now have this tinder social thing.  It's basically where you click to join a group of people already out somewhere, like at a bar on a saturday night.  So, instead of matching and going on dates one on one, you join a group of friends, also on tinder, that are out and about on the town.  So you can socialize as a group.  I think that's kind of neat.  The theory behind it is that it's easier to chat and get to know people when you have a group of single people... Which is EXACTLY what I was just saying.  It's more energizing when you have a group of single people and you're all out having drinks together.  That's my ideal situation.

I'm just like... If you're married or in a relationship?  Get the fuck out.

If you're single though?  Let's all go out and have drinks!

SO, to review... I like single people and they give me energy.  The more non-single you are.. anywhere from seeing someone, to actually in a relationship, to in a serious relationship, to married with kids... I'm just like... the LEAST amount of time I can spend with you or in your presence... That'd be great.  If you could just GTFO (get the fuck out) of my life,  that'd be spectacular.

So my next thing is to try this tinder social thing and see if I can mingles with the singles.

BRING ON THE SINGLE PEOPLE!  You invigorate me and give me energy.

And out with anyone that isn't single.  You're all slowly sucking away my soul... It's completely exhausting just being in your presence.

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