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More Dating Site Frustrations

Or just dating frustrations in general.

Dating is like pulling teeth.  It really is.  It's super frustrating.  Anyone that I talk to either on the site or in real life... It's like they are the flakiest people ever.  They don't really give a damn about you at all and at any moment... They just disappear or stop responding.

It just sucks.  Everyone else I know is all married and they act like it's SOOOO easy to just go out and find someone.

It's not.  People don't want commitments.  People don't want relationships.  People don't want any kind of serious anything when it comes to dating.  They just want to be flakey and distant and no one wants to actually commit to anything.

That's why dating is like pulling teeth.  I hate it.  I REALLY hate it.  And I HATE the people that are all married or in relationships that are so smug and make it seem like it's a walk in the park to find someone.

To them, I say... I hate you.  I hate you all really.  It's not easy.  It's REALLY hard.

I TRY and all these flakey girls on the dating sites don't.  They just don't care at all.

The only ones that ever actually start to go anywhere usually are the hardcore christian type girls.  Which is fine.  I generally tend to like those girls.  But then we get to a point in the dating where they want me to be all about Jesus.  I'm fundamentally Jewish.  That means to me... Jesus was just a groovy guy... But not my savior.

SO then it just falls apart.

The Jewish girls are few and far between but they generally don't ever seem that interested because I was never Bar Mitzvah'ed.  And I wasn't raised in the faith... SO they just kind of lose interested after  a quick 20 question interview/screening.

So yeah.  Dating sucks.  It just sucks.  And all those married people that are like... "Oh I met my so and so here... Or there..."

It doesn't help.  I just hate you even more when you say crap like that.

I'm just venting.  I'm just tired of creating these really well thought out messages that are very nicely written and then I just get responses back like "Oh that's cool."

Really?  That's it?  You can't even be bothered to answer the questions I asked... And ask some of your own?

"Oh that's cool."

That's ALL you have to say to two really nicely written paragraphs?

Dating just sucks.  It just fucking sucks.  I don't like to use swear words too often... But it just does.  It fucking sucks so much.

It's like pulling teeth.  And I'm just tired of it all.  I'm tired of everyone I know being married and I'm the only single person.  I'm just so tired of all these people trying to give me advice on where to meet someone.

People don't WANT to date.  They just want to play games and fuck with my heart and not actually commit.  They don't actually want ANY kind of serious commitment.  They just want to fool around and play games and it's just so damn frustrating.

I hate dating.  I fucking hate dating.